• 訪客:章杰      2009/11/26 9:22:25    

    邓先生真是一个完美主义者,尽管我和邓先生从未谋面,今后也不可能谋面,但从你的文字中我已领略到你的风采,其实你就很优雅了。也许我不是一个完美主义者,我看人看事看物都喜欢相对,因绝对了会很失望万物都没了生气,还是相对的好,太理想化反而少了些现实。邓先生的文章我目前只看了《私人的感想》,已悟到了先生的为人,也可以想象到先生的优雅。优雅,外在的东西固然重要长相呵仪态呵,更重要的是内在的东西就如先生说的气质风度,气质风度是和环境的熏陶,受教育的程度,社会地位,事业的成功分不开,但是否有爱心也很重要。你的《最终没给人添麻烦》令我很感动,作为人能对动物如此有爱心,甚至坐飞机都先考虑到动物,不是人人能做到的,单凭这点我就认为你很优雅,也许你会说我太简单化了,不!优雅不是靠充塞靠做作,而是生活中的点滴给他人的感受,由他人评价的,当然各人的尺寸不同结果也不尽相同,但是否有爱心一定是公认的。中国优雅的男士还是有的,不多,你就是不多的其中一个。

    回覆(2013/10/26 12:52:00)

    嘩原來妹妹已離開那麼多年了,還有盲眼的發達也走了多年了。

  • 訪客:fun      2009/11/25 16:38:01    

    太太太好了,終於等到了,有閱讀的盼望了。

    回覆(2013/9/26 17:23:12)

    hope you still find some fun here!

  • 訪客:章杰      2009/11/25 12:30:59    

    很高兴能登陆邓小宇的站借问。看了《永恒是一种想象》我也有一点私人的感觉。世界上的确是没有绝对的永恒的,因万物无时不在变哪能永恒呢?但相对的永恒是应该有的,那就是——情感。首先我得承认世界是个万花筒,男男女女都会被万花筒变化出来的五光十色所困惑,所诱惑,所迷惑,大多数人的情感也就随之而变了,不过有一些人的情感最终不变,我把这种情感叫细水长流。一对夫妻从青年到老年到金婚,他俩的情感有三种可能:一种是早已名存实亡,利益所趋不得不同在一个屋檐下;一种是情感的质有变还可以将就;一种是激情没了依旧细水长流。这种细水长流的情感多数存在貧民百姓中,他们没有太多的功利之心,长期受大自然的熏陶,一切顺其自然情感也就能永恒了。再者,我们常常听说某人为情而轻身了,他的这种行为当然不能称颂,但我们不得不佩服他对情感的执着,他是带着对情感的永恒而走的。再如,人对动物的情感也是可以永恒的“球叔”对“二妹”的情感不就是永恒的吗?所以绝对的永恒没有,相对的永恒是有的。世界是丰富多彩的,我们能活在世上是幸福的,一切美丽的东西相对来说都可以是永恒的,比如我们对美好的追求是永恒的,这不等同于幻想和想象,再如,我们常说给自己一点隐私的空间,就是要私底下珍藏一些美好的对自己来说是永恒的东西,只有这样我们才能对生活对未来充满希望而不至于悲观失望,生活也就能变得更有意义!

    回覆(2009/11/25 12:30:59)

  • 訪客:Jen      2009/11/23 5:41:45    

    This is an awesome site! As much I enjoy reading the romantic reminiscence about the old Hong kong, many people lived in proverty back in the 60s. Knowledge and information were inaccessible for the poor. My dad grew up in the 60s with an empty stomach. "Do you miss the old good days in Hong Kong?" I asked. "No. I would not want to go through that again." He answered without hesistation.

    回覆(2013/9/26 17:22:01)

    but even in poverty days, we still have the support of other family members. i guess that kept your father going.

  • 訪客:ophelia      2009/11/22 22:57:48    

    My god...I really sick these two days. But your website become a kind of medicine for me.

    回覆(2009/11/22 22:57:48)

  • 訪客:jo      2009/11/22 2:52:31    

    Your first statement in regards to Kowloon Tong totally strikes me... as it was also a place that "used to be my playground" for almost 2 decades. The blossoms of Azaleas around the campus in early March; my first cake at "Coffee House"; my first crush on bus No.7 (even it''s no longer a myth to you)... speechless. When Kam Wah Store had already vanished in dust, it is really a bliss to learn that someone out there can still share these bits and pieces of memories though we may not be from the same era... Kowloon Tong is a world of Angels & Devils - always learning something in a bitter-sweet way. The publishing of "Russian Meal" is definitely a magic to me, as well as to your followers. Appreciates again.

    回覆(2013/9/26 17:17:15)

    i agree. kowloon tong is bitter sweet for many people who went to school aroung that area.

  • 訪客:淘金者      2009/11/21 14:03:42    

    嘩﹐在這裡竟然找到了第一期號外的作品﹐真正大發現﹗

    回覆(2013/9/26 17:03:44)

    後來陸續也上傳了很多号外早期文章啊。

  • 訪客:little      2009/11/21 12:14:14    

    “天知道有時我是多麼渴望世界上是有著「永恆」這樣東西。”我也是這樣渴望著,旁人都告訴我說不可能,我仍然堅持去相信它的存在。又或者,我對“永恒”這個詞的理解寬容了些。“一些夫婦金婚紀念﹐恩愛如昔”,或者激情不在,但是相守一生,彼此珍惜,愛慕,忠誠,關心,也算是永恒了吧。人心多欲而且多變,人性本來有缺點,加上時間腐蝕,看似真的沒有絕對完美的"永恒",但我仍是不甘心,我死心眼地相信著它一定有,一定有!

    回覆(2013/10/26 12:39:24)

    永恆是活在每個人的心中。

  • 訪客:dd      2009/11/20 17:45:47    

    謝謝你, 你是一位很有才華的文字工作者, 更重要的是從文章中看出善良的靈魂, which is so rare in the egotistic world today. it''s a beautiful act to start your own website---finally,(should have been done ages ago) and i am dying for more~~

    回覆(2013/9/26 17:05:21)

    your kind words keep me going. thanks for telling me.

  • 訪客:little      2009/11/19 21:29:07    

    在忙碌之余,瀏覽你的網頁是我唯一的上網的理由。每次都有新發現,我那麽那麽喜悅,也變成了我忙碌之余,唯一這麽開心的原因。

    回覆(2013/9/26 17:14:52)

    好榮幸啊。

  • 訪客:ophelia      2009/11/18 23:25:59    

    I try to visit your website in China since 12/11. But it doesn''t work. Lucky that I bought the City magazine with me. And lucky that I live in HK. I can enjoy all the freedom at the moment. About your article of TIMLESSNESS,it remind me that your another article which advertised on City magazine last year. It was about your father. I feel very sorry about that. But I can feel how much you love him. I have met your father 2 times when he came with Patrick. The first time I met him was about 5 years ago. He came convention centre and just standing outside our booth. I wondering who is he such a gentleman just keep watching Patrick. Deal to my curiousity, I spoke to him. Then I found that he is Patrick''s father. Such a great father, I can tell from his face how he care about his son when I talked with him. I think he must proud to have son like you and your brothers. By the way, don''t care about your reply. I understand your style. Just do what you want. I respect what you do. The last respond was so wonderful to me. I will keep in my heart forever too.

    回覆(2013/9/26 17:08:55)

    yes i still miss my father. i wish he could have seen me launch my books and this site. i am sure he would have come to the site everyday.

  • 訪客:陈陈      2009/11/18 18:44:44    

    看了利冼柳媚那两篇“毒降头”,差点把我笑死了,真佩服作者的风趣和幽默感!

    回覆(2013/9/26 17:07:08)

    可惜就只有那十多篇了。

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